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	<title>Comments on: Why You Treat Me So Bad</title>
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		<title>By: kkholidai</title>
		<link>http://youngmanoldsoul.com/2010/01/04/why-you-treat-me-so-bad-2/#comment-176</link>
		<dc:creator>kkholidai</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 16 Jan 2010 00:42:46 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>wow deep but very true... Ur so rigt on this topic of cheating... When a man vlcheat he get so excited about his new iece of ass &amp; start showing her off &amp; telling everyone about this trophy pice... The man indulge with this side chick &amp; it boost his ego &amp; he instantly think he&#039;s the shit cause he have 2 bad chicks... A man get caught up in the hype of have 2 women &amp; eventually get sloppy with his cheating... 

on the other hand when a woman cheat she only release this information ti her closet friend that she know won&#039;t say a thing to anyone &amp; won&#039;t judge her due to her situation... A woman know how to keep her cheating under wraps where her main man doesn&#039;t know about her side guy... A woman don&#039;t need to flaunt &amp; show off her side man cause he is just wha you call him he side guy that will fulfill the needs that her main man isn&#039;t filling... It could be just the cmfort of being taken to dinner out dancing &amp; then giving her a full bodymassage of it could be for communication purposes cause her man isn&#039;t a good listener or it could just be cause he main man doesn&#039;t sex her right... A woman have several different motives to cheat whereas a man will do it just cause he know he caould be  panty dropper with another woman...

woman are more cautious when she cheat but as far as a man he will be very sloppy &amp; less cautious when he cheat &amp; will get caught eventually!!!!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>wow deep but very true&#8230; Ur so rigt on this topic of cheating&#8230; When a man vlcheat he get so excited about his new iece of ass &amp; start showing her off &amp; telling everyone about this trophy pice&#8230; The man indulge with this side chick &amp; it boost his ego &amp; he instantly think he&#8217;s the shit cause he have 2 bad chicks&#8230; A man get caught up in the hype of have 2 women &amp; eventually get sloppy with his cheating&#8230; </p>
<p>on the other hand when a woman cheat she only release this information ti her closet friend that she know won&#8217;t say a thing to anyone &amp; won&#8217;t judge her due to her situation&#8230; A woman know how to keep her cheating under wraps where her main man doesn&#8217;t know about her side guy&#8230; A woman don&#8217;t need to flaunt &amp; show off her side man cause he is just wha you call him he side guy that will fulfill the needs that her main man isn&#8217;t filling&#8230; It could be just the cmfort of being taken to dinner out dancing &amp; then giving her a full bodymassage of it could be for communication purposes cause her man isn&#8217;t a good listener or it could just be cause he main man doesn&#8217;t sex her right&#8230; A woman have several different motives to cheat whereas a man will do it just cause he know he caould be  panty dropper with another woman&#8230;</p>
<p>woman are more cautious when she cheat but as far as a man he will be very sloppy &amp; less cautious when he cheat &amp; will get caught eventually!!!!</p>
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		<title>By: ~Kesh</title>
		<link>http://youngmanoldsoul.com/2010/01/04/why-you-treat-me-so-bad-2/#comment-173</link>
		<dc:creator>~Kesh</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 05 Jan 2010 20:31:36 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Addendum: it takes lots of time, patience, and energy to devote to being single and dating more than one individual (see: making time for dates, making sure no one&#039;s offended), so I can&#039;t understand why anyone would let their greed drive them to maintain and manage the lies of more than one lifestyle.

Too much uneccessary drama in the brewing if you ask me *shrugs*</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Addendum: it takes lots of time, patience, and energy to devote to being single and dating more than one individual (see: making time for dates, making sure no one&#8217;s offended), so I can&#8217;t understand why anyone would let their greed drive them to maintain and manage the lies of more than one lifestyle.</p>
<p>Too much uneccessary drama in the brewing if you ask me *shrugs*</p>
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		<title>By: ~Kesh</title>
		<link>http://youngmanoldsoul.com/2010/01/04/why-you-treat-me-so-bad-2/#comment-172</link>
		<dc:creator>~Kesh</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 05 Jan 2010 20:25:21 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Daggone it! I had a response, and when I hit the submit button, it was lost....


Interesting perspective. In a nutshell, I think the double-standard does more harm than help to relationships.  And maybe its because of some of the reasons listed above, but I&#039;ve noticed that women are more like likely to grant second chances as opposed to men, who&#039;ve adapted the &quot;once a ho, always a ho&quot; and &quot;bros before hos&quot; motto.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Daggone it! I had a response, and when I hit the submit button, it was lost&#8230;.</p>
<p>Interesting perspective. In a nutshell, I think the double-standard does more harm than help to relationships.  And maybe its because of some of the reasons listed above, but I&#8217;ve noticed that women are more like likely to grant second chances as opposed to men, who&#8217;ve adapted the &#8220;once a ho, always a ho&#8221; and &#8220;bros before hos&#8221; motto.</p>
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		<title>By: MissMelony</title>
		<link>http://youngmanoldsoul.com/2010/01/04/why-you-treat-me-so-bad-2/#comment-171</link>
		<dc:creator>MissMelony</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 05 Jan 2010 19:00:18 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Women are more likely to share thereaffair with thier close friends, we do talk about our exploits,  so i disagree with that plot point in your blog (think monica lewinsky and All of tiger&#039;s mistresses, they all talked to &quot;someone&quot;)

Also not all cheating is as planned out as yourpost suggests. Sometimes it is spur of the moment. And yes i knwo thsi sint a why blog, but there has to be a why before any of the rest of thsi even matters.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Women are more likely to share thereaffair with thier close friends, we do talk about our exploits,  so i disagree with that plot point in your blog (think monica lewinsky and All of tiger&#8217;s mistresses, they all talked to &#8220;someone&#8221;)</p>
<p>Also not all cheating is as planned out as yourpost suggests. Sometimes it is spur of the moment. And yes i knwo thsi sint a why blog, but there has to be a why before any of the rest of thsi even matters.</p>
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